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shawnmmcc
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Weighing in from personal experience, I transitioned from Boann's attitude to more like Imran's as I've gotten older. I wanted to become a Jesuit when I was much younger, and because of that stayed a virgin until I was 22. I lost my virginity to a woman I wanted to marry, and it was very special, and the break-up about tore my heart out. So Boann's caution is laudable.
I also got into a relationship afterwards where the woman used the bedroom for power games. Thankfully I did not become embittered, and learned a very valuable lesson. After that I vowed that I would want to have sexual intimacy - a subset of sex - once the relationship went beyond the "like" to the "serious" stage. I can honestly say that 15 years later, I actually get more sex in more marraige than I did when we first started being intimate, mainly because we now live together. And I DEFINITELY get more, umm, how to phrase it, special treatment. That last statement was sort of tongue in cheek.
However, while discussing this with a friend of mine who is into alternative sexual arrangements - he was the husband of the lady of the house, who also had a wife - he agrees that making love is best, but if you can't have it - sex is good to. He has a point, but for me, I am more like John Miller. I am happy I waited, I can still count my total sexual contacts on two hands - not opportunities, I have turned various woman down for various reasons. That worked for me, and as long as you practice safe sex, if you want to have dozens of encounter, go for it.
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21-08-2005 01:02
Che just beat me to it.
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