15-01-2002 08:00									#91
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Friends are overrated and women can be rented. Clearly the question you need to ask yourself is: How do I become wealthy?

Answer that and all the pieces will just fall in line ...

That's my 'macho' answer. The 'warm and fuzzy' answer is:

Right now there are millions of people just like you wishing they could meet people just like you.

	15-01-2002 08:46									#92
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quote: Originally posted by yin26 women can be rented.

Typical Asia expat.

	15-01-2002 08:59									#93
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i has to say mac. when you go on dates you should not go to crowded places like concerts or night clubs. you need somthing just between you two. otherwise, your feelings and moves on her will get caught up in the mess around you. make them clear as daylight. grab her hip or hand and escort her to where she goes....grab it tightely. let her know that you are the dominate type. make your words clear donk stuttur. that is stupid. if you stutter take a pill called zanax. it stops stuttering for some reason.

anyway. make your moves clear. even if your at a keg party witrh friends or say at th emovies witf friends and get to meet somebody. screw staying there...laeve immediatly wtih the other to be alone.

also to improve your chances of scoring/hookinhg one i do recoomeend getting drunk togehher. when you are drunk you talk about stuff you would never talk about. and that opens amazing bonds when 2 people get drunk together. the other does teh same thing. and course you are young...so you can get away with acting like that.


also remember to always be cool man. dont act like sombody else. be yourself. always memorize lame jokees.

i has said "you lookgood enough to eat" and some other lines so mannnnnny times.

now back to inflatable recliner and ice bucket

	15-01-2002 09:11									#94
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quote: Typical Asia expat.

There are reasons I'm taking my time moving back!

	15-01-2002 09:15									#95
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quote: Originally posted by faded glory you need somthing just between you two. otherwise, your feelings and moves on her will get caught up in the mess around you. make them clear as daylight. grab her hip or hand and escort her to where she goes....grab it tightely. let her know that you are the dominate type

The caveman approach to dating

AKA sexual assault.

	15-01-2002 09:20									#96
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sextual assaukt? what a joke. since when was that considered assualt? especially when tehy say nothing about it.

that is called flirting. and it works good. and not doing it will never get you a women. thats why this forum is filled with 24, 18, 31 year old virgins. i am not mentioning any names. but you know who you are. hell how can anyone remian virgin at those ages?

	15-01-2002 09:24									#97
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Anything you say caveman.

And I think your spelling is an assault of some kind but probably not sexual.

	15-01-2002 09:26									#98
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Except, of course, that kind of behavior with the wrong woman can land you in jail. The good news there, though, is once in the "Big House," you'll have lots of 'girlfriends.'

My advice to getting women: 1) Be succesful at whatever you like to do and 2) Make them think you have NO interest in them but that you find them fun to be around.

Woman always want what they think they can't have and then complain once they get it. This brings me back to the concept of simply renting women...

	15-01-2002 09:36									#99
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quote: Originally posted by yin26 2) Make them think you have NO interest in them but that you find them fun to be around.

that is not true. if you play hard to get, (unless you are a perfect stud) they wont bother getting you. you should know that. that is the biggest piece of crap i have ever heard.

quote: Woman always want what they think they can't have and then complain once they get it. This brings me back to the concept of simply renting women...

your concept is completely false. and makes me wonder if you have even put this concept to use. bye renting women i suppose you mean giveing them lavish gifts to bring them closer? i think you are falsely selling yourself out.your making a huge generalization here. what you say simply isnt true. i know it to be false. becasue all they really want is attention and somebody to relate or have fun with.

quote: And I think your spelling is an assault of some kind but probably not sexual.

you moron i havent not care what you think. i cannot possibly type accurdately as my hand is throbbing every 3 minutes. i am not returning for the night here at alll. cause i will want to recpspond of course iwill not


ah must be gay

	15-01-2002 09:41									#100
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Well I see this thread has taken an interesting turn.

You might want to investigate the side effects of those pain killers faded!

	15-01-2002 09:52									#101
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quote: Originally posted by faded glory you moron i havent not care what you think. i cannot possibly type accurdately as my hand is throbbing every 3 minutes. i am not returning for the night here at alll. cause i will want to recpspond of course iwill not ah must be gay

What a sensitive little petal you are today.

	15-01-2002 09:57									#102
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quote: (unless you are a perfect stud)

Ah, yes. That's the problem, I guess. I certainly get away with the 'hard to get' approach all the time. Thanks.

As for renting women, I most certainly am *not* talking about giving them gifts. God sakes no! LOL! I'm talking about taking $50 to a delightful part of Seoul that I know, paying for sex, and going home to a few hours of relaxing computer games.

Ah, and don't forget to kiss the wife on the way in less she feels ignored.

	15-01-2002 19:36									#103
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The thing is with friends is this: "Ask not what your friends can do for you, ask what you can do for your friends." Follow this motto and you'll soon be coated with friends. Of course, you have to draw the line at becoming a complete toady.

	15-01-2002 23:11									#104
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don't take life so seriously


this is the key to happiness. my life sucks in normal people's standards. But I happen to think my life is excellent. It may be delusional, but I don't care. I'm happy as a pig in sh!t.

	15-01-2002 23:16									#105
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quote: Originally posted by Dissident don't take life so seriously this is the key to happiness. my life sucks in normal people's standards. But I happen to think my life is excellent. It may be delusional, but I don't care. I'm happy as a pig in sh!t.

Most definitely!
I have periods like that too. Sometimes I feel perfectly happy, sometimes I feel like sh*t, most of the time it's somewhere in between.

	16-01-2002 05:05									#106
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Mac - "I'd like to remind everyone that imagining how worse it is for someone else is irrational and stupid and only helps assuage guilt. Instead imagine how much better your life can be (within reason). You aren't those other people and you can never feel what they feel, trying to solves nothing."

in ten years search apolyton and reread that. youll hopefully understand it by then. Humility.

Dissident has a good point. dont take it all too seriously.

and someone mentioned "memorize lame jokes." another good one. so long as they are lame enough jokes...

	16-01-2002 05:18									#107
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quote: Originally posted by yin26 I'm talking about taking $50 to a delightful part of Seoul that I know, paying for sex, and going home to a few hours of relaxing computer games.

I have no right to be prudish about this but have you ever considered what kind of lives those girls lead? Its a tragic waste, even if they are well treated and paid. Many are single mothers or deserted wives who are nly in that game because of societal prejudice and the lack of a social safety net.

Also I know exactly what you are talking about having lived in Bangkok and Jakarta but I don't this is something that should recommended on a forum that is full of impressionable and unworldly youngsters.

Perhaps an edit would be appropriate Yin?

	16-01-2002 05:22									#108
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quote: Originally posted by Dr Strangelove The thing is with friends is this: "Ask not what your friends can do for you, ask what you can do for your friends." Follow this motto and you'll soon be coated with friends. Of course, you have to draw the line at becoming a complete toady.

Strangelove, am I right in advising depression sufferers that exercise helps? That's what I was told when my flatmate slipped into a deep depression and refused to get out of bed for days on end.

	16-01-2002 05:30									#109
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quote: Originally posted by Dr Strangelove The thing is with friends is this: "Ask not what your friends can do for you, ask what you can do for your friends." Follow this motto and you'll soon be coated with friends. Of course, you have to draw the line at becoming a complete toady.

As a complement to that, there is also, "I sought out to find friends and I found none. I sought out to BE a friend and I found them everywhere."

	16-01-2002 05:40									#110
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Exercise most DEFINITELY helps. Without going into the sordid details y'all don't care about, at one point I was in love (not in lust, seriously in love) with a girl I couldn't have for various reasons. I was depressed to the point where I'd act like a total ass to most of my friends at times. But you know what helped? Exercise. For me, that meant getting even more heavily involved into martial arts, working out on heavy bags, etc. Felt so much better during and after doing that.

I still get depressed about other stuff (various things, not gonna go into it except to say that it's in the same vein as many of the other comments on here by MacTBone and others) once in a while, but really it's not that bad anymore, not that bad at all. I still get plenty of exercise, not only martial arts but also tennis, which helps a great deal in all aspects of life (attitude, health, physical fitness, looks, etc.).

And let's not forget the curative effects of alcohol

Although in all seriousness I really DO NOT recommend getting drunk or even drinking that much alcohol while depressed, it makes matters worse. Trust me.

	16-01-2002 06:33									#111
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excersize does help- though I can't spell it

it really helps if that excersize is in the way of sex, but that is another subject entirely

the hard part is getting the motivation to excersize. I've been there. 1996 was the lowest point in my life. But even in September I have been depressed. And the longer I don't go out and excersize, the harder it is. It's like a downward spiral.

But once you start, and if you establish, a good routine, then things get easier. The important part is getting a good routine. Whenever something breaks my excersize routine, I fall off the wagon for weeks at a time.

	16-01-2002 06:39									#112
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quote: Originally posted by Alexander's Horse Strangelove, am I right in advising depression sufferers that exercise helps? That's what I was told when my flatmate slipped into a deep depression and refused to get out of bed for days on end.

Hmmm. Well, if they're able to exercise then they're really not that depressed. Disability denied. Next case!

(It might help some, and it probably won't hurt unless their suicide fantasy is to throw themselves in front of a car.)

	16-01-2002 07:05									#113
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quote: I have no right to be prudish about this but have you ever considered what kind of lives those girls lead? Its a tragic waste, even if they are well treated and paid. Many are single mothers or deserted wives who are nly in that game because of societal prejudice and the lack of a social safety net. Also I know exactly what you are talking about having lived in Bangkok and Jakarta but I don't this is something that should recommended on a forum that is full of impressionable and unworldly youngsters. Perhaps an edit would be appropriate Yin?

LOL! Too funny. Most of the girls here are NOT in the category you describe. Most are girls who make the following decision: "Yes, I come from a good home, but a part-time job earns me about $1.50 hour. I can earn $500 easy in a few hours at night doing this stuff. And, hey, I just *have* to have the latest fashions, so here I go."

That's how it is here in growing numbers. And the kiddies on Poly might actually learn something about the 'real world' by understanding that.

	16-01-2002 07:08									#114
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are you talking about street prostitutes or one's in whorehouses/brothels? there is a huge difference.

as you know, street prostitutes do fit into that category often times. I can show you some pictures of street prostitutes if you want. Granted you aren't supposed to judge from a picture, but you can see it in their eyes. Drugs are the main cause for this though.

But on the other hand, women in brothels have a much better life. but still even then there are circumstances. Women in brothels in the dutch island of St. martiin were colombian mostly. Their families had debts to pay, and so they sent their daughters off to pay them. How much choice did these women have? I felt a little bad for them.

But brothels in the U.S. are much different. With the exception of some immigrants, brothels in the U.S. have women that want to be there. They aren't forced to be there.

	16-01-2002 07:17									#115
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They still aren't the greatest places though.

	16-01-2002 07:20									#116
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speak for yourself

	16-01-2002 07:24									#117
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There really are no street protitutes in Korea. It's a highly regulated industry in which only certain areas are allowed to run it. And I assure you, a good number of these girls are young, healthy, have good families, etc.: They simply don't want to work for $1.50 hour at traditional jobs.

Korea is not some poor SE Asian country, and most of these girls are very, very far from being desperate. Greedy and misguided? Sure, I suppose.

	16-01-2002 07:29									#118
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For me it's an area I'd never venture into. It just seems like such a destructive environment for them.

And you can't turn a ho into a house wife.

	16-01-2002 07:30									#119
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quote: And you can't turn a ho into a house wife.

Tell that to all these guys who never in a million years would have suspected their girlfriend's job! LOL

	16-01-2002 07:34									#120
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Well now that's real good, lie to your boyfriend about your job!