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Park Avenue is offline Park Avenue
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The lower-earning parent stays at home.

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As there is still a significant wage difference between men and women that means you're trying to undo 30 years of social reform and get women out of work and back into the home.

Well done.

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Doing a brief search, I found the following for less than £85000.

"A SECOND FLOOR STUDIO FLAT SITUATED IN THE UNIVERSITY AREA OF READING AND SET IN COMMUNAL GROUNDS WITH NO CHAIN COMPLICATIONS. ELECTRIC HEATING, DOUBLE GLAZED WINDOWS AND BALCONY."


Does studio flat mean the same thing that it does in the US. (a one room apartment) If it does, I doubt I'd want to raise a child there.

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As there is still a significant wage difference between men and women that means you're trying to undo 30 years of social reform and get women out of work and back into the home.

Well done.


My wife earns more than me and she is going to go part time because she wants to.

We will face a subtantail drop in living standards but themn again gone are the days of going to the pub every night anyway. and i can't see us going abroad for a few years now

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Of course, not every woman earns less and if she wants to that's fine. She shouldn't be forced to though, that's my point.

Rah, yes, it does mean the same. That's also a complete dump. I looked round a flat in that block a year or so ago when I was looking for somewhere to rent.

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Of course, not every woman earns less and if she wants to that's fine. She shouldn't be forced to though, that's my point.



I agree, but unfortunatley it is the case that a women who takes say 4 years off either completley or goes part time faces problemms with her career.

My wife will have no chance of promtion once she goes part time

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Very true.

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Of course, not every woman earns less and if she wants to that's fine. She shouldn't be forced to though, that's my point.

Rah, yes, it does mean the same. That's also a complete dump. I looked round a flat in that block a year or so ago when I was looking for somewhere to rent.


No, really!? Bods clutching at straws again...

Guess you'll be bringing up your family on the outer hebrides as a sheep herder Bods - cos that's all you'll be able to afford with your pathetic university degree in the SE...

Seems to me that a lot of people aren't being selfish by not having kids - but merely struggling to survive without an extra mouth to feed and the loss of income that a child entails...

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I'm waiting for Bod's to raise the "Family credit" issue.

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There was a certain political party that was very keen on women giving up work and raising lots of children. It's name currently escapes me but I think it was quite big in Europe between 1933 and 1945.

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I bet they did wonders for the economy as well.

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Excellent! How did they deal with the tricky question of European unification?

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Excellent! How did they deal with the tricky question of European unification?


can't remember exactly i think the british selflishly declined to join their little club though

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A myth.

I've still yet to see any support for choosing not to have kids as being either selfish or, as someone rather offensively put it, "stupid."

It is neither, as the reasons for opting not to have kids can be varied. There is no blanket formula for life, as far as I know, and procreation for "adding to the population" and "continuing the species" are really stupid justifications for having kids. It's mentalities like these that have led to there being masses of neglected children, deteriorating urban conditions and rises in crime, poverty, etc.

Frankly, were it as difficult for everyone to have children as it is for same-sex couples, I think the world would be much better off. Then everyone who had kids would have to have REALLY wanted them and jumped through hoops to get them.

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What the original poster doesn't realize in the white trash part of the world (although this also applies to all minorities and even middle class women), women use kids to blackmail and use men.

put your rubber on guys . Women tend to "accidently" get knocked up force you to marry them, and then divorce you taking vaginamony and child support.

Men should always take birth control into their own hands. literally.

use condoms. don't let some conniving b!tch use and abuse nice guys like yourselves.

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Ladies? Dissident's available, you know.

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He's a devil with the ladies you know

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women use men all the time. You don't believe me?

Of course men use women as well. But most are honest and up front about it. They make no illusions all they want out of women is sex.

But women sometimes get pregnant on purpose to weasle money out of men. This is why birth control should always be the guy's responsibility.

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This is just a shot in the dark, but are you getting any lately?

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no of course not

but does it matter?

are you saying a woman has never got pregnant on purpose even though the man didn't want kids?

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and are you saying men should not take repsonsibility for birth control?

I am a nice guy, and I can tell you many ways women take advantage of nice guys.

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There's a far better reason for putting a helmet on that soldier, and that's preventing diseases. That helmet should only come off if you're committed and have had the necessary tests.

If there are then differences of opinion about breeding? Well that's relationships for you. It's hardly an indictment on the nefarious nature of those lovely ovary-bearing ones.

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well you can't deny their bilogical urge.

I'm not a woman, so I have no idea what their bilogical urges are

I probably should have figured it out by now, but I haven't

 
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