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Lancer
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Oregon Coast, USA! or Bohol, Philippines!
Apr 1999 time: 05:28
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In my little town a 19 year old kid killed himself a couple days back. Took a gun and put a bullet through his brain. Here we live in near paradise on the Oregon Coast, small town...yet this kid ends it all. Doesn't happen much here so its big news. I hear other places have much higher suicide rates. In the Philippines there are very few, unheard of, yet so many there are dirt poor, lacking food and clean water...
So, is it drugs or the music or...what? Why does this happen in the wealthy west?
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Lancer
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Oregon Coast, USA! or Bohol, Philippines!
Apr 1999 time: 05:28
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Slow growth? In the Philippines they have no growth, and suicide is unheard of.
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Lancer
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Oregon Coast, USA! or Bohol, Philippines!
Apr 1999 time: 05:28
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John, the only logical conclusion I can reach from what you wrote is that these kids are killing themselves because there isn't enough cholera in the world.
Asher, high expectations and no foundation maybe. Nothing inside that enables them to ride the setbacks.
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Lancer
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Oregon Coast, USA! or Bohol, Philippines!
Apr 1999 time: 05:28
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Stinger, maybe. The people there are happier for some reason though. You have to see it to believe it.
Boddington, nice one. I don't buy it though.
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JohnT

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Capitalist
Mar 1999 time: 00:28
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No, the thing is that Western kids are killing themselves in such "large" numbers because there's nothing else doing so other than accidents. When you live in a country where your life expectancy is 50, plenty of **** is wasting people left and right, young and old.
According to the NIMH, suicide rates for young people (20-24 years of age seems to be the most likely age) top out at 40 deaths per 100,000... or .04% of the population.
Otoh, suicide is far more of a danger to the elderly, where the suicide rate almost doubles, to 80 deaths per 100,000, or .08% of the population.
http://www.nimh.nih.gov/research/suichart.cfm
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Cruddy
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I think MOST of the answer lies in perspective.
A western kid thinks negatively about themselves if they don't excel. Consumerism is all, but once you reach the stage where you realise that your being sold 10 minues of happiness only, and that it will be junk in 5 years, your question is "what's the point?"
Suicide happens for many reasons. However, they all have one thing in common - that death seems preferable to living.
Think on this - all humanity's emotions are wired the same. We all "feel" to the same extremes. Even though a western kid might not physicaly "suffer" as much as others, the feeling of suffering is the same. Add in the tolerance factor - that suffering breeds tolerance - and it's very easy to see why westerners go off the deep end when exposed to trauma. We are not used to sudden, unexpected shock.
If you grow up, say, iin India, where death is a common sight on the street, suicide is seen as a waste of time. Why die because you are in pain today - you could be in bliss tomorrow.
I really haven't explained this well at all. Suggest you look up Alvin Toffler's "Future Shock".
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