16-08-2003 21:09									#1
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Ever happened to you? Well not exactly my either, but I just came back from grocery store and accidentally bumped into my ex-gf from,, 98? She was you know hot then and all that, but she was also 17 then, but attractive. But now? DAAAAAAAAAAAAMN! My eyes popped out I mean she's a total sex machine. I was truly.. uh oh.. I can't eve put it to words how hot she was, I mean she could have been a playboy model as far as I saw it. She was wearing _tight_ jeans and I was checking her out naturally and.. omg. One of those that you see them in street and just avoid car crash. Man, I'm so gutted, why did I dump her???!!!!

Well realistically, we wouldn't be together after all years I guess, she would have dumped me by now but.. have this ever happened to you? Does it make you angry? I'm hella angry now. I mean.. DAAAaaaaaaaaaaaaaamn!

	16-08-2003 21:17									#2
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*points and laughs* sucks, doesn't it? I had a somewhat similar situation in highscool. But I have no regrets. she was a bitcn.

I am surrounded by taken beautiful women, it seems. Just met my best friends hot highscool senior cousin two days ago (she did some modeling ) when he gave me a ride to Tel Aviv, she needed a ride too... to meet her "serious relationship" boyfriend who just got enlisted.

	16-08-2003 21:20									#3
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Az, Tell me about it! She wasn't a b1tch back then either.. she was actually the one I still think with warm thoughts after some years. I was just stupid and immature dumping her because I got bored, arrogant that way. I figure it wouldn't have lasted to these days but still.. I kind of hit myself to the head now, I guess I deserve this .. but DAMN IT!

It seems like I've been going out with hot chicks when I was younger.. I wonder what's with that, and why I'm now NOT going out with hot chicks What did I have then that I don't have now? I keep wondering.. I have to get my mojo back, damn I 'm frustrated, I'm almost angry with myself.. I'm stupid!!

And you know, yes it sucks big time. Do you know what sucks even more? I used to hang out with his brother after we broke up (kind of weird.. hehe.. but we had more chemistry), and maybe year after that, she asked if I'd go out with her again.. and I said..... No. Strike 2.
I'm too stupid to deserve having a penis.

	16-08-2003 21:21									#4
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seeing i don't even get to have the ugly ones my answer is: no

	16-08-2003 21:23									#5
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Once they're done with you, they realize what potential they really have, and decide not to waste it anymore.

	16-08-2003 21:29									#6
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MtG, true

Well I can always celebrate the fact that I slept with her Doesn't actually help much, quite the opposite!!!!!!
And you know just then when you take the courage and look your best and you go chat with them, you know trying to warm up things so that it's not obvious you spot the ring 'oh you're engaged?'.... WHY GOD WHY!?!?!?!?! *cries*..

	16-08-2003 21:29									#7
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quote: I used to hang out with his brother after we broke up (kind of weird.. hehe..

Is there anything we need to know?



Seriously, I feel your pain. But at least you had it great in highschool.


If she was actually a great person, then there is nothing I might say which will be able to make you feel better.

	16-08-2003 21:33									#8
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Ups.. I meant HER

Yeah.. I have only started to appreciate it now. And she was nice and we were doing ok. It was me that was stupid jerk thinking I don't like her. You know, like first fight that really isn't even a fight and you're like 'it's over'. wtf? Aaaargh! I do deserve this though....... but it actually really sucks and I'm not just saying it. But I guess many of you have experienced the same thing.

Well, I'll find someone else I guess..... I'm trying not to get drunk and call her drunk saying I want to get back with her and be traditional fool doing it

	16-08-2003 21:37									#10
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What I need to do now is raise my own level personally, starting to be like a true sex machine too. This is an arms race!!! I'll make her want me back too! YEAH!!

	16-08-2003 21:42									#11
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But come on folks, let's hear your own stories!

Also you can give stories about models you started dating and them turning to anna nicole smiths.

	16-08-2003 21:57									#12
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Similar sort of thing happened to me with a girl called Emily... She has serious dependency and attention issues and I don't want that.

	16-08-2003 22:17									#13
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[edit: i don't suppose we were officially dating, so not a GF. i was just her b!tch.]

not a model, a cheerleader.

there was this girl who was new to our highschool school (this was 9th grade), and she was downright beautiful. italian / cuban mix, long brown hair, nice skintone, stacked, had back, the works i tell you, the works!

whatever happened in her past, she was very insecure about her self, especially her looks and whether or not people would like her. hell, thats what i live for, so i comforted her about her insecurities and became her friend. we started to hang out and my friends kept saying "it doesn't look right with your arm around her". f*ck them. after about 2 months of being a friend i got a real kiss . anyway, my strategy would be my downfall. cheerleader tryouts were comming along, and she was kind of excited about it, she had always wanted to be a cheerleader, she said. i've always wanted to bang a cheerleader, i thought. so i encouragesd her to do it, she even asked me to sit through the tryouts (awesome). she made it, and i even went to one of her competitions (i didnt even knew they existed). our team got the silver and she was estatic.

then, about a week later, she's dating a _junior_ (11th grade) football player. thats 17 on 14, mind you. we stayed friends for about a year after that, slowly drifting apart, my stomach dropping whenever i saw her holding hands with the jock bastard. she would also tell me about him. about every problem she had with him. f*ck that. eventually, we stopped talking alltogether, and would just say hi to eachother in the hall. she also gave me pity dances at 2 sweet sixteens, which was nice of her. she's go a humanitarian heart. GRINDING FOR THE NERDS! WOO!

thats all.

	16-08-2003 22:19									#14
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So, Pekka, If it is an arms race, what are your starting positions vis a vis her?

	16-08-2003 22:23									#15
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well maybe models for fat clothes

	16-08-2003 22:24									#16
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UberKrux, good story, though she dumped you.. not the other way around. But that'll qualify I guess. Too bad for you .. good thing you didn't sleep with her.. it's only worse after that. I mean you already know what's under that dress and you know it's good. And later you see her, and you know she is even better now, you know the kind every dude drools after if they have any man genes in them.. and now you know you can't get with her ever again . It's a shame.. damn shame.

It's like being rich and then you be poor. You know what it's like to be rich, so it's even worse to be poor instead of being always poor.

	16-08-2003 22:24									#17
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4 UberKrux.

I am not saying that you had to keep leaving her in the insecure zone, ( though it's crystal clear that you had to, following the player logic ), but I think you'd better make a move on her before letting her slip. My heart aches for you, too. But it was 9th grade... you could never know it.

	16-08-2003 22:30									#18
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quote: Originally posted by Pekka It's like being rich and then you be poor. You know what it's like to be rich, so it's even worse to be poor instead of being always poor.

yeah, but i'd have got to f*ck her!

	16-08-2003 22:39									#19
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UberKrux, no it's worse.. that's what I think..now knowing it with first hand experience

Azazel, my position? Well.. I don't know. I'd say I'm not in the same league now, as she could get anyone she wanted, I mean anyone. But then again, we did hit it off both ways, physically and mentally few years ago, so you know.. but I turned down after she asked me out again after long time, so I think she liked me a lot even after, but then again I think I don't mean crap to her anymore since I was stupid enough to turn her down the second time so.. I think she doesn't give a crap now about me. Rightfully so. I don't know though.. I guess it's my time to get over her I guess I never did, I did regret it soon after but I thought I have to live with my decisions and not go back and forth. I'm a mumbling fool now . Well.. And I'm moving very soon to a new city so I guess I'll never see her again anyway. But you never know, I'll be visiting here often.. it's arms race anyway. I don't want to look 'sexy' though, and I guess that wouldn't even suit me at all. But arms race, that I'll start changing my drobe, get a new set of clothes. THat's a start. Make sure my hair is not messy all the time .

I saw her brother maybe like a year ago, and we went for few beers and I asked about her and he said she had only 2 boyfriends after me, none of them long and none of them she was that interested.. one even beat her up. I turned down the perfect opportunity to beat the guy who beat her when he asked.. Man, that's strike 3!

	16-08-2003 22:58									#20
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quote: Originally posted by Pekka Ever happened to you? Well not exactly my either, but I just came back from grocery store and accidentally bumped into my ex-gf from,, 98? She was you know hot then and all that, but she was also 17 then, but attractive. But now? DAAAAAAAAAAAAMN! My eyes popped out I mean she's a total sex machine. I was truly.. uh oh.. I can't eve put it to words how hot she was, I mean she could have been a playboy model as far as I saw it. She was wearing _tight_ jeans and I was checking her out naturally and.. omg. One of those that you see them in street and just avoid car crash. Man, I'm so gutted, why did I dump her???!!!! Well realistically, we wouldn't be together after all years I guess, she would have dumped me by now but.. have this ever happened to you? Does it make you angry? I'm hella angry now. I mean.. DAAAaaaaaaaaaaaaaamn!

No, but somethng a bit close.
When we had temporarily, from what it was proven to be, broke up she apparently was the centre of attention for a TV chanel...

When we got back together I asked her" So what did you do the time we were apart?"

_"Oh just hanging with (female) friends".

_"Oh I see."

_"Yeah. Heh, you know it was funny, this TV station had me on the air dancing this weekend!"

_"What? How?"

_"Oh we went to a fair with my friends and their were some TV cameras and they were shooting us dancing"

_"You mean when I was there miserable, you were out having a good time with your friends?"

_"It's my way of dealing with being sad I guess..."

_"Hmpf.... Ok..."


_"So what did you do while we were apart"

_"Well, I sort of spent the night in a (female) friend of mine."

_"What?!"

_"It's my way of dealing with me being sad I guess..."



(true I slept over but nothing happened)

	16-08-2003 23:00									#21
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paiktis, Classic!

	16-08-2003 23:10									#22
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this happend to me, a real lack of foresight on my part. we were both 15, she fancied me rotten and did ALL the chasing, but she wasn't that great looking (had an alright face, and great arse, but she had braces and was a bit flat) and my mates took the mickey out of me for going out with her. so after about a month i dumped her, with some BS reason, and she didn't take it at all well. i then didn't talk to her until we left school.

so i see her about 2 years later, ****ing hell, fit as ****! same face, same arse but she had cut her hair the braces had gone and her tits, man...*goes off to 'think' for 10 minutes*. so because of my dickhead mates (and self) i threw away this bird who ****ing loved me and who later became unbeliveably fit! the worst thing is that i didn't sleep with her in that month and now i hear she's a right dirty cow as well, ffs.

it goes without saying that she still hates my guts.

	16-08-2003 23:11									#23
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Hmmm..while I've never really had this happen, I can say from experience that cheerleaders seem to be the most unstable out of all women. So, watch it when you meet one. I think it's because they have all they have all these dumbass horny teenage guys approaching them during their formative years so they get all sorts of wack ideas about men and start having trust issues.

Though another girl I broke up with ended up doing soft core porn pictures.

	16-08-2003 23:16									#24
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C0ckney, So you know the feeling. It's horrible!

I've had few of cases where I fancied the girl very much, but was too afraid to ask them out. And now I realize few of them fancied me too, signs were so obvious, but I thought 'she'd never fancy me'. I mean damn I was stupid when I was even younger. Then realizing that yeah I had many beautiful girls as friends.. and many of them came on to me, and I just didn't realize it. It's time to move on, but I still hit my head every now and then .

	16-08-2003 23:17									#25
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Is that why you are always beating people up Pekka?

	16-08-2003 23:20									#26
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I'm not always beating up people! I'm gentle and the few incidents earned it and started the mess.

	16-08-2003 23:26									#27
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i know what you mean there as well pekka. the worst for me was this bird i knew in college, she started off really liking me, and it was really obvious to everyone (except me of course). my mate james said (about 3 months after the fact, ffs) that if she'd come on any stronger her knickers would have caught fire. so she goes off me a bit, because it appears i'm not interested just as i start really liking her, but by the time i finally twig that she might like me as well she's moved on and has found this 23 year old git, who's in the navy (and was/is a right ugly bastard to boot).

i got told the part about her fancing me but one of her friends a little while later i was like 'cheers love, but wouldn't that information have been a little more handy 3 months ago...'

ah memories :/

	16-08-2003 23:31									#28
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Bah, I'm already dating a model.

* Koyaanisqatsi looks nervously over his shoulder.

	16-08-2003 23:41									#29
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dude, that sounds like it hurt.

	17-08-2003 02:06									#30
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maybe it's the fact you can't have them that makes them so attractive?