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May 2002 time: 07:35
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I'm not too fertile either so it seems.
She didn't take contraceptives because she had a problem with the pills (lots of girls I know have adverse reactions to them) and the reason I didn't was because I didn't have a supply of suitable rubber. Since then, I have found a store that sells what I'm looking for and I am very happy about it.
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Dis
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Feb 2000 time: 21:35
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quote: Originally posted by Lazarus and the Gimp
Serious question- do you actually like women? I know you want to bump uglies with them, but do you actually like them? |
what gives you that impression that I don't like women. I just said some people say that. I don't say that.
And how do you get the impression that I hate women by citing examples of women manipulationg men? Men manipulate women just as much if not more. It's just the nature of humans I suppose. But this does not indicate any kind of hatred.
If I hate anyone, it's myself. but I love women. I hate myself for nor being more masculine and attractive to women.
Last edited by Dis on 31-08-2004 at 05:48
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Ben Kenobi
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McGregornobi!
Oct 2002 time: 21:35
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You dont want love, you want sex. Get honest about it, get real about it, and you'll get it. Keep searching for "love first" and you'll have a hard time.
A lot of people do wait until marriage..... and they get married at 19 or 20.
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Not all.
I know a fair number of people who are waiting, and are older than me, 24, 25.
Of course, I'm going on what they have told me, which may or may not be correct.
And some of my friends are considering to be either priests or nuns, so it's a little different than most.
First of all, there is nothing wrong with waiting to get married. By waiting you avoid many of the problems associated with promiscuity.
Secondly, when you find that person, then you don't have a past to dredge up and discuss. Sure you might be inexperienced, but an inexperienced person also does not have bad habits.
So even if you do want sex, there is no reason to look for sex outside of marriage.
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Flubber
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With a view of the Rockies
Aug 2000 time: 22:35
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quote: Originally posted by Ben Kenobi
From your standpoint, you've got the milk without buying the cow. From her standpoint, she has no security. |
That seems to be a fundamentally sexist way to look at things. They are both getting the same "milk" and they both have the same security or lack thereof.
BK-- while I can respect your choice in this matter, its YOUR choice. and dude . .. . marriage doesn't really give additional security; it just requires additional paperwork for one party to stomp on the heart of another and leave them.
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Ben Kenobi
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McGregornobi!
Oct 2002 time: 21:35
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BK-- while I can respect your choice in this matter, its YOUR choice. and dude . .. . marriage doesn't really give additional security; it just requires additional paperwork for one party to stomp on the heart of another and leave them.
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That additional paperwork is a promise to each other that must first be broken in order to become divorced. Just the commitment made provides more security for both of you, even given the attitude that marriage is nothing more than a piece of paper.
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That seems to be a fundamentally sexist way to look at things. They are both getting the same "milk" and they both have the same security or lack thereof.
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So? Men and women are not exactly the same. For her, it is a far more precarious situation than it is for you.
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Kontiki
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Canada
Aug 2001 time: 00:35
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quote: Originally posted by Ben Kenobi
For her, it is a far more precarious situation than it is for you. |
Um, why?
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