23-11-2004 05:19									#1
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Hey all,

I have been seeing this girl for 3 months now and she wants me to move in with her. I told her I am not ready (which I'm not). Well she decided to break up with me this morning over it.

Do you think this is fair?

	23-11-2004 06:00									#2
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	23-11-2004 06:50									#3
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There is an off-topic forum, you know?

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lol yeah i just realised that.

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	23-11-2004 07:25									#6
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is there anyway i can delete it since im the thread starter or does a moderator have to do it?

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I'm sure a friendly moderator will move it to the OT for you.

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You canīt delete threads or move them, only mods can

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Ask her if you can bring your other girlfriend there to. I'd be willing to bet your troubles would be over.

	23-11-2004 09:21									#10
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Time to move this puppy to the OTF where it belongs

	23-11-2004 09:22									#11
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DL!!!

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I'm pretty sure Ming's not a DL...

	23-11-2004 09:36									#13
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Oh, now moved, 3 months is way too short to move in. She's messed in the head.

	23-11-2004 09:38									#14
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She was being way too unreasonable -- why wait for THREE months to move in, when you should have moved in together after the first week of dating?

	23-11-2004 09:45									#15
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quote: Originally posted by MrFun She was being way too unreasonable -- why wait for THREE months to move in, when you should have moved in together after the first week of dating?

Bunnygrrl did.

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quote: Originally posted by chegitz guevara Bunnygrrl did.

I rest my case.

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quote: Originally posted by chegitz guevara Bunnygrrl did.

And che's single life was over

	23-11-2004 09:55									#18
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Ahhh but something you guys are possibly missing... is there a reason? Like is she trouble financially? She may be looking for a quick fix as well as a fu*k buddy. A solution with perks

Or could just be a control freek either way unless this is really fuc*ing up your world then you may want to count yourself lucky you got away as soon as you did before your'd invested much more.

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quote: Originally posted by Buddally Hey all, I have been seeing this girl for 3 months now and she wants me to move in with her. I told her I am not ready (which I'm not). Well she decided to break up with me this morning over it. Do you think this is fair?

Yes, I do. She has certain requirements for a relationship and you were unwilling to meet them. Now, these requirements might seem excessive, but they do exist.

Anyway, it's pretty obvious that she was looking more for somebody to help pay the rent than somebody to share her life with. Good riddance to bad rubbish.

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See...told ya'.

	23-11-2004 10:18									#21
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quote: She was being way too unreasonable -- why wait for THREE months to move in, when you should have moved in together after the first week of dating?

Or just start dating one of your flatmates, like me, it saves all moving hassles.

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quote: Originally posted by Buddally Hey all, I have been seeing this girl for 3 months now and she wants me to move in with her. I told her I am not ready (which I'm not). Well she decided to break up with me this morning over it. Do you think this is fair?

3 months!

waaaaaay too soon to move in with her.

She's desperate to get her hooks into you. Be glad she's gone.

It's funny how women preach about trust and getting to know a guy before having sex with them, yet they expect you to move in after 3 months? no way. You need to know someone at least a year before moving in imho.

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	23-11-2004 11:32									#24
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You're better off without her.

	23-11-2004 13:01									#25
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Yeah, she just wants financial help.

	23-11-2004 13:30									#26
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quote: Originally posted by Theben Yeah, she just wants financial help.

Confront her on it! I gotta hear about this!!!

	23-11-2004 14:32									#27
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Yes it sounds unreasonably pushy to demand that someone move in with you and break up with them if they won't. If the relationship was truly of cohabitational quality then she should be willing to wait a while to develop it further until you are comfortable moving in with her. The fact that she isn't shows that she is either desperate, unreasonably demanding or both.

	23-11-2004 18:01									#28
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She's not worth it if she is going to break up with you over a significant decision like that. Moving in is about more than just money.

Speaking of which, I moved in with my girlfriend after seeing her for 3 months. Yesterday.

	23-11-2004 18:31									#29
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quote: Originally posted by Imran Siddiqui Oh, now moved, 3 months is way too short to move in. She's messed in the head.

	23-11-2004 19:39									#30
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quote: Originally posted by Buddally Hey all, I have been seeing this girl for 3 months now and she wants me to move in with her. I told her I am not ready (which I'm not). Well she decided to break up with me this morning over it. Do you think this is fair?

It depends on whether you have said anything to lead her to believe that you wanted a serious long-term commitment to her.

Also. are you sure that this is the ONLY reason why she is breaking up with you? Girls aren't always forthcoming about what their real issues are. They aren't able to look at relationship issues as objectively as men because they are too influenced by their emotions.

If you havent led her on, and if she has no other issues with you than she wants you in her house, then if she is ready to break up with you over that, she is either 1) a psycho - stay away from her; or 2) bluffing - waiting to see if you will come crawling back to her and try to appease her in some way. Don't do it!

In my opinion, it is best to just leave her alone. If she is bluffing and sees that you will not respond to threats, she will come crawling back to you at some point. Then you can give her your list of requirements for her being allowed to see you again. Make her do whatever you want! If she is not bluffing, then leave her alone and find someone who is not high maintenance..