31-05-2005 13:27									#1
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I really have no idea. forgive me if I have made a thread similar to this in the past. It's getting tough to remember which threads I have done.

I think this one woman was possibly interested in me. But part of her job is to make small talk, so maybe she was making small talk. But I was getting my hair cut at one of those family haircut places (I don't go to barber shops- I prefer to have women cut my hair). And this asian lady was cutting my hair. She seemed genuinely interested in my life. And was very interested if I had been to China in the navy (she's from china). Unfortunately, I had to say no, because I have never been to china, even though I really wanted to go to Hong Kong. But I just wasn't stationed on the west coast, so that wasn't possible. And she said I had great hair. I don't think I do, it's too thin for my tastes. But she could be saying these things to get a better tip. It worked I guess, I did give a better tip than I usually give. In any case, I recently changed places I normally get my hair cut, to this place. I'll definately be going back. Hopefully I can get the same lady to cut my hair.

I never can tell when women are interested in me. My last girlfriend pretty much had to demand we go out. We were writing each other for a while, but I really didn't think she was interested in me.

I wonder how many women could have possibly be interested in me and I was too stupid to notice. Surely I can't go years (and almost decades) at a time without one single women in this entire planet being interested in me. Can I? It's heartbreaking when the ugliest of women pay you no attention. oh well.

	31-05-2005 13:30									#2
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She was just making small talk.

	31-05-2005 13:31									#3
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Really no one way to tell.

The most obvious ones I know of are:

1) She is all into you and she is laughing at the stupidest things that you say.

Ted: "I'm going to do laundry tonight."

Chick: "OMG LOL!!!111 Too funny!"

2) She's very nervous around you and can't look at you, she'll talk to all your friends but can't really sneak a look at you without being embarrassed.


Another girl will always be able to tell right away though if another girl likes you.

	31-05-2005 13:32									#4
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women will do anything for money j/k

	31-05-2005 13:34									#5
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In high school, I think this Korean girl might have been intersted in me. I figured she just wanted help with her homework. But being Korean, her culture probably isn't big on women asking men out. I think she might have been interested in me. She was asking what I was doing after I graduated high school. Oh well. No sense thinking about the past which I cannot change...

	31-05-2005 13:36									#6
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If you want to take her out, I suggest asking her how her culture deals with such stuff.

"If a guy in your culture is interested in taking a girl to lunch, what is proper for him to do?" Then, do whatever she says.

	31-05-2005 13:39									#7
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or it could be I like asian girls and my mind is tricking itself into believeing she's interested in me.

I thought this one girl at work was interested in me because she flirted with me all the time. Turns out she flirts with everyone. too bad I didn't know this before I asked her out. It's embarrassing being turned down with someone you work with. I kept thinking she told all the other girls at work.

	31-05-2005 13:41									#8
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try this. some interesting stuff.

edit: file too big

	31-05-2005 13:43									#9
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quote: Originally posted by Dissident or it could be I like asian girls and my mind is tricking itself into believeing she's interested in me. I thought this one girl at work was interested in me because she flirted with me all the time. Turns out she flirts with everyone. too bad I didn't know this before I asked her out. It's embarrassing being turned down with someone you work with. I kept thinking she told all the other girls at work.

Lancer can always help you find some Asian chicks.

	31-05-2005 13:44									#10
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Just one Ted, calm down there fella.

	31-05-2005 13:44									#11
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just dont try to understand women...but about asking girls out i have this to say in dutch (any one that can translate it properly i would give a ):
beter een blauwtje lopen dan een groentje blijven.

	31-05-2005 13:47									#12
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quote: Originally posted by DeathByTheSword just dont try to understand women...but about asking girls out i have this to say in dutch (any one that can translate it properly i would give a ): beter een blauwtje lopen dan een groentje blijven.

One does not try to understand the ways of the force, one just accepts and hits it.

	31-05-2005 13:48									#13
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yeah maybe next time I will just ask her out.

if she says no I can always change hair stylists and go to another place.

	31-05-2005 13:49									#14
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quote: Originally posted by DeathByTheSword just dont try to understand women...but about asking girls out i have this to say in dutch (any one that can translate it properly i would give a ): beter een blauwtje lopen dan een groentje blijven.

Something like:
Better feel blue than stay green

	31-05-2005 13:49									#15
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There you go.

	31-05-2005 13:51									#16
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quote: Originally posted by Dry Something like: Better feel blue than stay green

good enough:

better struck out with a girl (blauwtje lopen) than staying a virgin (groentje).

so here is it Dry very good =

	31-05-2005 13:54									#17
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Make conversation...

"Do you like apples?"

I'm sure you've all heard this old joke.

	31-05-2005 13:57									#18
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I am really terrible ant knowing also

and if one is sort of interested in you, it is still easy to mess up (if you tend towards being a complete spaz when nervous)

Jon Miller

	31-05-2005 14:00									#20
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It's amazing the hoops you guys feel you have to jump through.

	31-05-2005 14:03									#21
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as long as jumping hoops equel hitting it i am ok with it

	31-05-2005 14:03									#22
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well...it's pretty hard dude. But one good way is if she's exposing her neck or playing with her hair a lot when she talks to you. Exposing her neck shows more skin and is a subtle hint at them wanting you to come close to them.

Playing with her hair is hard, it could either mean she's nervous, bored, or in to you. If she flicks her hair to expose her neck more than normal, I'd say you have a good chance...or that her hair is really irritating her.

Go for it dude.

	31-05-2005 14:06									#23
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One good one I heard was from a convo I overheard in a bar....

One guy was talking about wanting to ask out a girl but was scared to. The other dude said, to paraphrase, this...

"So what if you get rejected, sure you're heart is gonna be broken...but the heart breaks from lonliness as well. And if it's gonna break ANYWAY, might as well go for it dude cause you got nothin to lose."


Holy sh*t that was cool.

	31-05-2005 14:30									#24
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quote: And this asian lady was cutting my hair.... ...I did give a better tip

you give tips at (missing the word) hair-cutting establishments? :shock:

	31-05-2005 14:34									#25
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There are a number of ways telling, but why would you need to?

Next time when you have a haircut, near the end just say "It's great chatting with you. How about a coffee this evening?"

	31-05-2005 14:34									#26
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on the subject....

quote: How do you tell if a girl is interested in you?

if you wear this t-shirt

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and she finds it funny

	31-05-2005 14:34									#27
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quote: Originally posted by MarkG quote: And this asian lady was cutting my hair.... ...I did give a better tip you give tips at (missing the word) hair-cutting establishments? :shock:

Yeah, it's a rather established practice here too.

	31-05-2005 14:35									#28
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quote: Originally posted by Urban Ranger There are a number of ways telling, but why would you need to? Next time when you have a haircut, near the end just say "It's great chatting with you. How about a coffee this evening?"

I don't drink coffee

	31-05-2005 14:36									#29
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quote: Originally posted by Ted Striker 2) She's very nervous around you and can't look at you, she'll talk to all your friends but can't really sneak a look at you without being embarrassed.

Or the exact opposite - gaze lock.

	31-05-2005 14:36									#30
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quote: Originally posted by Urban Ranger near the end just say "It's great chatting with you. How about a coffee this evening?"

or
"we have to stop meeting like this. pretty soon i'll have no hair left"
and make your eyes like this