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Should I circumcize my son?
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Yes, of course. 20 25.32%
No, why would you? 51 64.56%
Try it on a banana first. 8 10.13%
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tandeetaylor is offline tandeetaylor
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It wasn't that long ago was it?


No, it wasn't.

Asher is offline Asher
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quote:
Originally posted by Apocalypse
And the lube argument is stupid. She would be more than wet enough if you do it right.

The lube argument is stupid, but it's a nice feature.

The real arguments against circumcision are:

  • It is incredibly painful for an extended period of time for the baby, several studies have shown this can have some long term psychological effects (see my latest really long essay I quoted)
  • There are potential complications. Not only is it possible to completely butcher the penis, but infection rate skyrockets for the couple weeks after the operation.
  • It is not true it prevents cancer in the slightest. The one study that said it helped prevent penile cancer has since been dismissed as fundamentally flawed, and many more modern studies claim there's zero difference in cut and uncut men's infection rates.
  • The argument that uncut men are more prone to STDs comes from nowhere. 28 modern studies all confirmed that circumcised men are actually more prone to getting STDs than uncircumcised men.
  • You're cutting off THE most nerve-centric part of the organ. The result is less pleasure during sex.

    And the upside to circumcision?
    If you're in the south, eastern, or midwestern US you're going to be in the ~65% number of people who are cut, rather than be "teased" because you're in the 35% number. But if you live in the west, the situations reverse themselves anyway.

    Extremely weak and pathetic argument for the "pro" side, IMHO.

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    AFAIK female circumscision is mostly done in african countries, not the mideast...though I'm far from an expert on the subject.

    Its certainly not that much different. The foreskin is there to protect the sensitive area around the penis head, just as the clitoral hood is mainly there to protect the sensitive clitoris.

    Cutting off the clitoral hood on females would be equally as pointless and painful....

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    Originally posted by Imran Siddiqui Asher, they are WOMEN. Do you really think any of them are sane?


    Hey. I understand that almost all of the posters here are men, but you should keep your anti-women statements to threads not started by one.

    I like to think of myself as mostly sane, and I hope my son only goes for the sane ones too.

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    And the lube argument is stupid. She would be more than wet enough if you do it right.


    Though it's off topic, I must point out what a silly assumption that is. Some females at full arousal don't provide enough lubrication for sex. All women are different...some flow like the amazon and some are as dry as the sahara, regardless of the arousal. Has a lot to do with genetics, diet, health, age, among other things.

    Pekka is offline Pekka
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    Would women get their clitoral hoods removed these days, if many men would like it? I don't think so.
    Should they? No.
    Should men do that for the same reason? If they want to.. not someone else.
    Plus, it's even more fun with foreskin, you can play with it .

    Boris Godunov is offline Boris Godunov
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    *feels sick to his stomach*

    drake is offline drake
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    About what boris?

    Apocalypse is offline Apocalypse
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    quote:
    Originally posted by Asher
    The lube argument is stupid, but it's a nice feature.

    It makes you lazy if anything.

  • It is incredibly painful for an extended period of time for the baby, several studies have shown this can have some long term psychological effects (see my latest really long essay I quoted)

    I don't trust most psychologists.

  • There are potential complications. Not only is it possible to completely butcher the penis, but infection rate skyrockets for the couple weeks after the operation.

    Can be prevented if the parents take proper care of the baby.

  • It is not true it prevents cancer in the slightest. The one study that said it helped prevent penile cancer has since been dismissed as fundamentally flawed, and many more modern studies claim there's zero difference in cut and uncut men's infection rates.

    This is a neutral argument. Neither for or against.

  • The argument that uncut men are more prone to STDs comes from nowhere. 28 modern studies all confirmed that circumcised men are actually more prone to getting STDs than uncircumcised men.

    Use a condom or only sleep with clean people.

  • You're cutting off THE most nerve-centric part of the organ. The result is less pleasure during sex.

    Can also result in longer sex. Spontaneous erections are less common too.

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    And the upside to circumcision?
    If you're in the south, eastern, or midwestern US you're going to be in the ~65% number of people who are cut, rather than be "teased" because you're in the 35% number. But if you live in the west, the situations reverse themselves anyway.

    I love how you ignore previous arguments.

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    All of this talk about the female anatomy is turning him off.

    Apocalypse is offline Apocalypse
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    quote:
    Originally posted by drake
    Though it's off topic, I must point out what a silly assumption that is. Some females at full arousal don't provide enough lubrication for sex. All women are different...some flow like the amazon and some are as dry as the sahara, regardless of the arousal. Has a lot to do with genetics, diet, health, age, among other things.

    Asher brought it up. If you work in some foreplay, there really should be enough.

    Pekka is offline Pekka
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    I'm all for amputating womens legs and arms after birth.. leave only the good parts .

    tandeetaylor is offline tandeetaylor
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    Originally posted by Eli
    Wait a minute... Aren't you(tandee) ck's girlfriend? Or was it someone else with a similar name?


    No, you're not mistaken. That was me, about a year ago. In fact, I think the last time I saw him was actually in the beginning of last August.

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    quote:
    Originally posted by Apocalypse
    I don't trust most psychologists.

    Still, you're causing a great amount of pain over an extended period of time, and the vast majority do so without sedation.

    quote:
    Can be prevented if the parents take proper care of the baby.

    Not necessarily, it can get infected or cause other complications even if you do everything right...

    quote:
    Can also result in longer sex. Spontaneous erections are less common too.

    Actually, again from my last cited huge essay, circumcised men complain more about premature ejaculation than uncircumcised men. They gave a possible explanation for it, but I can't recall it now. This is a faulty argument at its core, because it depends on the man, not whether he has foreskin or not.

    quote:
    I love how you ignore previous arguments.

    I ignored irrelevant arguments. But feel free to enlighten me...

    Boris Godunov is offline Boris Godunov
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    Originally posted by drake
    About what boris?


    quote:
    All of this talk about the female anatomy is turning him off.


    He got it...

    I think it was the "flowing like the amazon" comment...

    Apocalypse is offline Apocalypse
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    Originally posted by Pekka
    I'm all for amputating womens legs and arms after birth.. leave only the good parts .

    I really hope most Finns don't share that opinion.

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    Originally posted by Apocalypse
    Asher brought it up. If you work in some foreplay, there really should be enough.

    I never said anything about females being moist, that was you. I simply mentioned that uncut men have more natural lubrication, which is a nice bonus feature for both sex (since not all women are created equal in that regard) and masturbation. In fact that's the main reason it started, to cut down on masturbation due to the less pleasurable experience it gives while cut and also due to increased friction for cut men...

    Narck is offline Narck
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    Personally, I am happy I'm still 'intact'. There is no way that any child of mine will ever be circumsized if there is not a very good medical reason to do so. My sons will have the opportunity to make the decision to get circumsized on their own, when they're mature enough to do so.


    quote:
    Originally posted by Asher
    You really think girls will spread rumors about how a guy is uncut, when the rate of cut and uncut is now ~60/40 overall, and 35/75 in the West...
    35/75

    Boris Godunov is offline Boris Godunov
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    This reminds me of the Meaning of Life...

    "Have we discussed vaginal juices?"

    Asher is offline Asher
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    65, whatever.

    MikeH is offline MikeH
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    Haven't read all this thread but:

    NOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!

    Leave the poor kids genitals alone! There's no medical reason for everyone to have it cut off and it'll reduce their sexual pleasure later in life and it DOES reduce pleasure that is not some myth.

    It's unusual for anyone in the UK to be circumsized unless it's for religious reasons. It just seems so wrong!

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    You really think girls will spread rumors about how a guy is uncut,


    YES! I'm guessing you didn't spend much time in US highschools .

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    it DOES reduce pleasure that is not some myth.


    So what about the person that posted in this thread saying he was the same sexual pleasure wise after he got it snipped in his 20s?

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    I don't know if you've ever been to a highschool, but there are these things called 'RUMORS' that kinda get spread around .


    My kids will not be in high school unless they really, really, REALLY want to be. I've been to high school in the US, and I'm not going to waste my childrens' time with it.

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    Asher brought it up. If you work in some foreplay, there really should be enough.


    Depends on the girl. Some yes. Some not necessarily.

    quote:
    I think it was the "flowing like the amazon" comment...


    Whats wrong with that? Beats cracking out the ol' KY

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    Still, you're causing a great amount of pain over an extended period of time, and the vast majority do so without sedation.

    And they are other studies that say they recover easily. The starter of this thread can give sedation too, so this is a mute point.

    quote:
    Not necessarily, it can get infected or cause other complications even if you do everything right...

    The chances are very minimal though.

    quote:
    Actually, again from my last cited huge essay, circumcised men complain more about premature ejaculation than uncircumcised men. They gave a possible explanation for it, but I can't recall it now. This is a faulty argument at its core, because it depends on the man, not whether he has foreskin or not.

    Premature ejaculation isn't cause by sensitivity. I'm talking about lasting time for normal people

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    I ignored irrelevant arguments. But feel free to enlighten me...

    You've already heard them. That is the point. You'll just ignore them again 100 posts from now.

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    quote:
    Originally posted by Imran Siddiqui
    So what about the person that posted in this thread saying he was the same sexual pleasure wise after he got it snipped in his 20s?

    He's the oddball, most people say otherwise.

    quote:
    YES! I'm guessing you didn't spend much time in US highschools

    You're right, not US high schools. But then again I also was in the US in the civilized West, where circumsisions are the minority.

    But you must admit, Imran, that arguing for circumcision on the basis of peer pressure, particularly when the boy's a very large "minority" (~40% of the US, 85% of the World), is stupid. I've personally met more women who would prefer the uncut to the cut, but I've also spent my high school years in Canada where the cut boys are the freaks.

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    Well I am without a Kojak rollneck and I am fine, just make sure it is done when he is young so it doesn't hurt much...

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    But you must admit, Imran, that arguing for circumcision on the basis of peer pressure, particularly when the boy's a very large "minority" (~40% of the US, 85% of the World), is stupid. I've personally met more women who would prefer the uncut to the cut, but I've also spent my high school years in Canada where the cut boys are the freaks.


    The points are (1) what does it matter what other people think. I don't think women care that much and (2) what are the kids in school doing analysing one another's penises anyway

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    And they are other studies that say they recover easily. The starter of this thread can give sedation too, so this is a mute point.

    It's not that simple. The open wound is exposed for days, and at that age they aren't exactly toilet trained so the wound will eventually mix with feces or urine...which is why the infection rate soars.

    And you can't give babies anesthetic all (or even most?) of the time. They're simply too young. You could apply a little local, but that eventually wears off, and then the baby is SOL for the next weeks in pain.

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    The chances are very minimal though.

    Do you have the actual numbers? The doctors in the article I cited claimed the infection rate soars after the operation for a couple weeks.

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    Premature ejaculation isn't cause by sensitivity.

    So why were you guys using it earlier as a reason for getting rid of the sensitive tissue?

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    You've already heard them. That is the point. You'll just ignore them again 100 posts from now.

    I honestly don't remember any other serious arguments in favor of circumcision. And the thread is too long and spammy for me to look them up, so please present them now...

     
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