21-06-2005 12:27									#211
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quote: Originally posted by aneeshm As I've said before , guys trying to be nice forget to be guys . Therein lies the mistake - you have not to suppress your sexuailty just because you're nice . Go ahead , be nice - but be a guy , too . As an aside , at the next "cuddling session" , try to turn and keep the conversation on intimate/sexual topics , and after about ten to fifteen minutes of that , make your move . The way into a woman't pants is through her mind .

well well.. a guy that actually knows something

	21-06-2005 12:30									#212
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quote: Originally posted by Oerdin Lancer if you keep trying to marry off all those Philippinas then we're going to end up with half the forum married to Philippinas and living down the street from you.

I see these guys trying to jump through the unfathomable hoops that so many western women set up and I can't not want to help, having spent way too much time trying to jump though em myself.

Besides, If OT folks move into the area, well, I have enough room in my place in the Phils to set up a wargame room, and San Miguel beer is dirt cheap and tasty.

	21-06-2005 12:36									#213
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quote: Originally posted by Jon Miller Hmm, so (Some) of the stories of female sleepovers are true? I thought those were made up by horny men. I agree that there can be nothing sexual about male/male cuddling, male/female cuddling, and female/female cuddling but with today's sex obsessed culture (And maybe almost all cultures are sex obsessed) it is rarely nonsexual for both people involved (especially if they are not related) and in this case we know that it is somewhat sexual for Space Jon Miller (I pay attention to most of your posts)

yes you can assume that "some" of the sleepover
stories are true...

todays culture is totally obsessed with sex.
and objectifing each other is rampant.
i can't say that only men do it now..
because women seem to be adopting male attitudes
about sexuality and relationships..
its rather disturbing .
what has happened to emotional and spiritual
connection between genders.
all tossed aside for temporary physical pleasure.
i think there are a lot of people missing out on
the real meaning of what life is about.


humm you pay attention to most of my posts
i suppose i am rather an odd bird here.
well i don't mind being the amusing older woman..
with the weird ideas and thoughts...

	21-06-2005 12:40									#214
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Which one of you hoes wants to cuddle with Ted Striker????

	21-06-2005 12:41									#215
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We gonna do some ninja style cuddling:

	21-06-2005 12:43									#216
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quote: Originally posted by Lancer I see these guys trying to jump through the unfathomable hoops that so many western women set up and I can't not want to help, having spent way too much time trying to jump though em myself.

ahhh lancer lancer... i knew it wouldn't be long before you would jump right in there...
where have you been... i missed ya
we really have to stop meeting like this...
i have so many comebacks rolling around in my pea brain ... oh but im resisting my baser urges... lol

	21-06-2005 12:43									#217
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quote: Originally posted by Ted Striker Which one of you hoes wants to cuddle with Ted Striker????

I do hope ur talking to your enterouge ted

	21-06-2005 12:45									#218
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quote: Originally posted by Ted Striker Which one of you hoes wants to cuddle with Ted Striker????

at MS T

	21-06-2005 12:50									#219
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Stop hitting me in the head with that hammer! What kind of crap cuddling is that???

	21-06-2005 12:55									#220
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quote: Originally posted by Ted Striker Stop hitting me in the head with that hammer! What kind of crap cuddling is that???

just off the top of my head its better then getting kicked in the nuts

	21-06-2005 13:04									#221
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Unfortunatley you're right.

I always wondered why getting grazed in the nuts hurts more than a full force impact.

I think it's because the nerves in the nuts are like guitar strings, pluck one and it just keeps vibrating, on and on. But one hard hit and it just kinda makes a sound and then nothing but silence.

Nut Impact Theory

	21-06-2005 13:06									#222
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quote: Originally posted by Ted Striker Stop hitting me in the head with that hammer! What kind of crap cuddling is that???

aww you know you love it
wheres my whip.

	21-06-2005 13:06									#223
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Now we're talking.

	21-06-2005 13:07									#224
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poor space... probably wonders wtf happened to his thread... lol

	21-06-2005 13:08									#225
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quote: Originally posted by Ted Striker Unfortunatley you're right. I always wondered why getting grazed in the nuts hurts more than a full force impact. I think it's because the nerves in the nuts are like guitar strings, pluck one and it just keeps vibrating, on and on. But one hard hit and it just kinda makes a sound and then nothing but silence. Nut Impact Theory

Im gonna have to take ur word on that since i dont have a set of my own

	21-06-2005 13:33									#226
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quote: Originally posted by dv8ed Generally, I've found that people who don't know how they feel don't accept being told by others...

Indeed, and that's when you see mixed signals.

That's why they are bad, since the person doing it is confused.

	21-06-2005 14:06									#227
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Here is some very general advice :

1) Everyone has some unfulfilled desire , some need . Find out that desire in your target . ( You have this part easy , thanks to the cuddling thing ) .

2) Craft an imaginary universe in which that desire can be fulfilled .

3) Place yourself at the centre of this universe .

4) Give the target a glimpse of this universe . Associate this particular universe with yourself and your presence . ( Again , you have this easy )

5) Make the target fond of this universe , and consequently fond of you / your presence .

6) Make the target just a teensy bit afraid of losing this universe .

7) Make your move .

8) Profit !!!!

	21-06-2005 14:09									#228
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seriously still on this subject...space listen...you can do one of 2 things...

1. ACT

2. DONT ACT

but MAKE UP YOUR FREAKING MIND AND LET THESE PEOPLE GO BACK AND DISCUSS THE EVILS OF COMMUNISM AND BUSH...

	21-06-2005 14:15									#229
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quote: Originally posted by boann ahhh lancer lancer... i knew it wouldn't be long before you would jump right in there... where have you been... i missed ya we really have to stop meeting like this... i have so many comebacks rolling around in my pea brain ... oh but im resisting my baser urges... lol

"... oh but im resisting my baser urges... lol "

...which brings us right back to the original topic of this thread.

	21-06-2005 14:43									#230
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quote: Originally posted by aneeshm Here is some very general advice :

Does that mean he should be pretending to be somebody else?

	21-06-2005 15:22									#231
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I've always thought "be yourself" to be bullshit. Particularly since those who say it close to invariably go on to tell me to act as if I were someone else.

Regarding nuts and skulls, I've never been hit in the head by a hammer (thank God), but I'm open to the idea it's worse than being kicked in the groin. Getting your skull cracked does not sound appealing.

Last edited by Last Conformist on 21-06-2005 at 16:26

	21-06-2005 15:51									#232
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quote: Originally posted by Urban Ranger Does that mean he should be pretending to be somebody else?

Depends on what he wants . If he wants to just get laid , then he can go ahead and pretend . If he wants something more serious , then it is possible to do what I said without any pretending whatsoever .

Remember , women crave the feeling of safety/security , not actual safety itself ( I say this because cuddling reveals a need for safety and security or relaxation/comfort , which can be said to be almost the same things ) .

	21-06-2005 16:21									#233
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I think Space is doing just fine without us right now.

Back off-topic: Imran weren't you like the feminist womyn dude back in the days?

	21-06-2005 16:40									#234
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he's not dating that chick anymore.

	21-06-2005 19:36									#235
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After reading this thread, I just gotta say that I am fortunate to be gay and don't have to deal with women in the way that poor straight guys have to deal with them.

	21-06-2005 19:45									#236
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eerrrr, if i was supposed to tell you any womanly secrets i can only tell you that the only thing i know about other women (i don't want you) is that they are trying to torture my enternal soul!
yes

	21-06-2005 19:50									#237
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quote: Originally posted by aneeshm Here is some very general advice : 1) Everyone has some unfulfilled desire , some need . Find out that desire in your target . ( You have this part easy , thanks to the cuddling thing ) . 2) Craft an imaginary universe in which that desire can be fulfilled . 3) Place yourself at the centre of this universe . 4) Give the target a glimpse of this universe . Associate this particular universe with yourself and your presence . ( Again , you have this easy ) 5) Make the target fond of this universe , and consequently fond of you / your presence . 6) Make the target just a teensy bit afraid of losing this universe . 7) Make your move . 8) Profit !!!!

Which dating-site did you copy that from?

	21-06-2005 22:03									#238
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I didn't copy that from any dating site . Why do you think I did ? Playing on people's desires/insecurities is something that is quite easy , that is why I suggested it . FYI , the entire post is original , because the subject is so broad , and though it is easy to break down into steps , it never really works as smoothly in practice - hence the disclaimer that it is very general advice .

	21-06-2005 22:42									#239
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quote: Originally posted by Space05us I have a date with Lady #2 this Friday. I shall have a conversation with Chica #1 tomorrow. Until everything is clear with Chica #1 I shall proceed as though we are just friends.

Good for moving on with girl two but I'd avoid the conversation with girl one. It is better to keep flirting with her and act like a boyfriend (I.E. long walks, holding doors, going to concerts, letting her read your really bad poetry, etc) then to bring it to a head where she will feel uncomfortable and distance herself from you. Just don't invest any emotional energy into it.

This way you don't chase her off so you can still be friends with her and maybe date one of her friends. The friendship might evolve later but that's a very distant chance.

	22-06-2005 00:21									#240
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Seduce her good friend and have some hot monkey sex so she'll tell Chica all about it and presto you just may have a threesome on your hand... even a foursome if you get lucky